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Well here we go with a new poll! This one was actually suggested, along with a few of the choices. As always, please feel free to add comments about your choices, or ask questions/ post comments about someone ELSE's choices! That's the fun part about these polls!
Everyone has turn-ons and turn-offs. What are some of yours? Prefefences are what makes swinging so intereting...all the different body-types and all sorts of people...mmmmm....like Baskin Robbins 31 flavors, only much better!
Have fun!
Gina
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Turn-offs? What turns you OFF?
#1
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 142
- Joined: 22-December 06
- Gender:Female
- Location:Virginia
- Interests:We enjoy groups, couples and singles from mild to wild. <br />We are a secure, loving, honest, fun, and giving couple who plays same room or seperately (although we really like watching each other have fun!). <br />We're not perfect, yet we're perfect for each other. We both are attracted to people with intelligence and a good sense of humor. Attitude is everything, and desire is an aphrodisiac.<br /><br />She is a sensual and curvy Bisexual, with soulful eyes. Touch her and see why multi-orgasmic is an understatement!<br />He has great arms, masterful hands, a deep sexy voice and is laid back. <br />Our favorite thing about the lifestyle is making people feel good! We respect all boundaries and preferences and we're never pushy.<br /><br />We will answer all emails and are happy to talk about our erotic adventures! We love the people and experiences we've had at Red Rooster!
- Status:Couple
Posted 24 February 2007 - 03:56 PM
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#2
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 189
- Joined: 19-December 06
- Gender:Male
- Location:Las Vegas nevada
- Interests:We are a couple. I am straight male and she is a bi female. We are looking for females to play with but she will play with single males every now and then. We love the chair room and most of the time leave the door open. Couples are very welcome to come in and watch or play if everything clicks. Asian women are very welcome to stop by and say hi. Safe sex only with us and non-latex condoms (a must) for her. She is very out going and playful, I am shy and need coaching. Stop by and say hi. Most of the time we are at the table by the private room back of the dance floor.
- Status:Couple
Posted 26 February 2007 - 06:46 PM
The only turn off i have is poor hygiene. This covers bad breath, bad body odor, hair not brush ect. As a male women can not get undress too fast or have too big or too small breast. As far as body types I like body types like Charlene but have been know to go for other body types that turns me on and there are a few ladies that I can name but will not due to bad taste and being shy. Charlene on the other hand likes her women that same way as i do.
Stop laughing or I will put my clothes back on.
#3
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 189
- Joined: 19-December 06
- Gender:Male
- Location:Las Vegas nevada
- Interests:We are a couple. I am straight male and she is a bi female. We are looking for females to play with but she will play with single males every now and then. We love the chair room and most of the time leave the door open. Couples are very welcome to come in and watch or play if everything clicks. Asian women are very welcome to stop by and say hi. Safe sex only with us and non-latex condoms (a must) for her. She is very out going and playful, I am shy and need coaching. Stop by and say hi. Most of the time we are at the table by the private room back of the dance floor.
- Status:Couple
Posted 27 February 2007 - 01:00 PM
Now with Charlene she is turn off by poor hygiene, lack of respect to her or me, roughness and or pain. She also don't like people who come on too stronge or men that will not include me into the conversation.
Stop laughing or I will put my clothes back on.
#4
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 142
- Joined: 22-December 06
- Gender:Female
- Location:Virginia
- Interests:We enjoy groups, couples and singles from mild to wild. <br />We are a secure, loving, honest, fun, and giving couple who plays same room or seperately (although we really like watching each other have fun!). <br />We're not perfect, yet we're perfect for each other. We both are attracted to people with intelligence and a good sense of humor. Attitude is everything, and desire is an aphrodisiac.<br /><br />She is a sensual and curvy Bisexual, with soulful eyes. Touch her and see why multi-orgasmic is an understatement!<br />He has great arms, masterful hands, a deep sexy voice and is laid back. <br />Our favorite thing about the lifestyle is making people feel good! We respect all boundaries and preferences and we're never pushy.<br /><br />We will answer all emails and are happy to talk about our erotic adventures! We love the people and experiences we've had at Red Rooster!
- Status:Couple
Posted 28 February 2007 - 10:28 PM
That was probably our only turn off when we visited the RR, but it wasn't a "bad" thing, just something we noted: we didn't really warm up to a single guy who would wait till Dan went to the bathroom or the bar before he would start complimenting me. We try to tell that to single guys: please compliment the lady IN FRONT OF her husband/partner. They like that, we like that, most like that! It will go a long way to opening some doors for play. The ones that did so, were interested, acted interested, said nice things, touched politely, etc., with Dan there to enjoy...those were the ones we included (not ALL of them, just some select ones, and hopefully even more next time!).
Dan's a smoker, and to a lot of people that may be a turn off, but he's very considerate, and carries breath spray all the time. If he's smoking at the bar area, or any other smoking area, he's so careful not to blow smoke in anyone's direction or leave a cigarette smoldering. Ugh.
I would imagine that most of us would use samples of deodorants, or deodorant sprays while at Red Rooster if play got a bit wild and, like me, things heated up quite a bit! I made sure to use cologne, but tried not to be overwhelming with it too. We are very clean people, and like the same. Guys, trim those fingernails please, or use an emory board to smooth your nails. (Ladies too, for those like me who like to touch a lot)
Pushy people? Nah... Confident people? Oh yes, oh yes, oh my god yes!
Gina
Dan's a smoker, and to a lot of people that may be a turn off, but he's very considerate, and carries breath spray all the time. If he's smoking at the bar area, or any other smoking area, he's so careful not to blow smoke in anyone's direction or leave a cigarette smoldering. Ugh.
I would imagine that most of us would use samples of deodorants, or deodorant sprays while at Red Rooster if play got a bit wild and, like me, things heated up quite a bit! I made sure to use cologne, but tried not to be overwhelming with it too. We are very clean people, and like the same. Guys, trim those fingernails please, or use an emory board to smooth your nails. (Ladies too, for those like me who like to touch a lot)
Pushy people? Nah... Confident people? Oh yes, oh yes, oh my god yes!
Gina
#5
- Banty Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 50
- Joined: 20-December 06
- Gender:Male
- Location:northern Los Angeles county
- Interests:Well, I believe in the soul; the cock; the pussy; the small of a woman's back; the haning curve ball; high fiber, good scotch; that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent, over-rated crap. I believe that Lee Harvy Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.
- Status:Single Male
Posted 01 March 2007 - 02:30 PM
I don't think anyone can get undressed too fast! The quicker we all get naked, the better!
But bad hygene is damn unsexy. And I would follow that with bad attitudes in the turnoff department.
And although I may be in the minority in this, too many tattoos can can be a deal-breaker, too.
CAN be... I've been know to bend on that, though.
But bad hygene is damn unsexy. And I would follow that with bad attitudes in the turnoff department.
And although I may be in the minority in this, too many tattoos can can be a deal-breaker, too.
CAN be... I've been know to bend on that, though.
#6
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 210
- Joined: 18-December 06
- Gender:Female
- Location:Las Vegas
- Interests:Buddy and I (deb), are swingers. Many people think we aren't because you will find us volunteering most of the time we are in Mike and Chris' house. <br />We are both straight and just enjoy fun sex. Or should I say hit and run sex. <br />We don't play with locals and seldom with singles. Although there are exceptions to every rule. <br /><br />I tend bar at the front bar on Thursday and the back bar on Friday and Saturday. I would love to meet you, <br />Stop and say, Hello
- Status:Couple
Posted 04 March 2007 - 05:11 AM
I think this poll shows that there are things that each of us can improve on, but even if we do improve on some things, we will never apeal to everyone. Each of us likes and dislikes different things. Except it looks like everyone likes tall people. 
Deb
Deb
YES, we swing!
#7
- Just a Rooster Egg
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 6
- Joined: 24-January 07
- Gender:Not Telling
- Location:Las Vegas
- Status:Transgender
Posted 05 March 2007 - 05:59 AM
Arrogance is a big turn off for me. You know the ones who walk around, with just too much attitude. The ones who think they have just graced the place, with their presence. Get over yourself.... LOL
MissRachel
MissRachel
#8
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 189
- Joined: 19-December 06
- Gender:Male
- Location:Las Vegas nevada
- Interests:We are a couple. I am straight male and she is a bi female. We are looking for females to play with but she will play with single males every now and then. We love the chair room and most of the time leave the door open. Couples are very welcome to come in and watch or play if everything clicks. Asian women are very welcome to stop by and say hi. Safe sex only with us and non-latex condoms (a must) for her. She is very out going and playful, I am shy and need coaching. Stop by and say hi. Most of the time we are at the table by the private room back of the dance floor.
- Status:Couple
Posted 05 March 2007 - 08:05 AM
MissRachelTG, on Mar 5 2007, 05:59 AM, said:
Arrogance is a big turn off for me. You know the ones who walk around, with just too much attitude. The ones who think they have just graced the place, with their presence. Get over yourself.... LOL
MissRachel
MissRachel
You hit the nail right on the head.
Stop laughing or I will put my clothes back on.
#9
- Horny Rooster
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 142
- Joined: 22-December 06
- Gender:Female
- Location:Virginia
- Interests:We enjoy groups, couples and singles from mild to wild. <br />We are a secure, loving, honest, fun, and giving couple who plays same room or seperately (although we really like watching each other have fun!). <br />We're not perfect, yet we're perfect for each other. We both are attracted to people with intelligence and a good sense of humor. Attitude is everything, and desire is an aphrodisiac.<br /><br />She is a sensual and curvy Bisexual, with soulful eyes. Touch her and see why multi-orgasmic is an understatement!<br />He has great arms, masterful hands, a deep sexy voice and is laid back. <br />Our favorite thing about the lifestyle is making people feel good! We respect all boundaries and preferences and we're never pushy.<br /><br />We will answer all emails and are happy to talk about our erotic adventures! We love the people and experiences we've had at Red Rooster!
- Status:Couple
Posted 05 March 2007 - 11:58 AM
Of course, I had to scroll back up and see the results about "too tall." hahaha.
Although I like being told what to do, I don't like overly pushy people. "Suck my dick" doesn't always work for me (unless Dan tells me to with that wonderfully wicked look he can give). But, "Come hard for me Baby" works for me very well. So, I think the command thing is something I enjoy more when it's in reference to my own self (Spread your legs., take off your clothes and I'll be home in 10 minutes," those kinds of "order"). I like that power of suggestion, the anticipation.
Rude people are rude in most areas, including sexually. There's no reason or room for that in my life anymore. I'm having too much fun with people who genuinely are there to please and be pleased, give and take, and are gracious and fun and open and have a sense of humor.
Gina
Although I like being told what to do, I don't like overly pushy people. "Suck my dick" doesn't always work for me (unless Dan tells me to with that wonderfully wicked look he can give). But, "Come hard for me Baby" works for me very well. So, I think the command thing is something I enjoy more when it's in reference to my own self (Spread your legs., take off your clothes and I'll be home in 10 minutes," those kinds of "order"). I like that power of suggestion, the anticipation.
Rude people are rude in most areas, including sexually. There's no reason or room for that in my life anymore. I'm having too much fun with people who genuinely are there to please and be pleased, give and take, and are gracious and fun and open and have a sense of humor.
Gina
This post has been edited by Gina&Dan: 05 March 2007 - 11:58 AM
#10 Guest_MikeNMaria_*
Posted 06 March 2007 - 01:49 PM
Ok, here goes for our 2 cents:
We VOTED poor hygiene but could have easily included:
Naked too soon - We disagree that nobody can get naked too soon; it's a total turn-off to both of us if even a beautiful woman is dancing naked 15 minutes after arriving. That should be saved for a little later after everyone has gotten "warmed up." In our humble opinion anyway... let's leave a little something to the imagination.
Large Penis (No personality) - Ugh! How pathetic (and oh what a waste) is it for some guy who's really hung to come up and act like he is god's gift? Total loser to us from the word "go."
Too Pushy - Again, these people dont get very far with either of us. While we both appreciate someone who has confidence in themselves (heck, that's sexy), it's a fine line that some tread between confidence and conceit.
Poorly Dressed - We're not the snappiest dressers in the world, but anyone who is looking to hook up with someone else should at least make a decent attempt at looking like they care about how they look! While this primarily applies to the guys who come in dressed in ratty/dirty jeans and a T-shirt (un-tucked), it can occasionally apply to a woman. Just show up dressed as well as if you were going out with the hopes of picking up a date in a nice club...
Lastly, dishonesty is the biggest turn-off we have encountered in this lifestyle. We'd rather get to know someone as they truly are rather than who/what they wish they were! This ties in with disrespect towards either of both of us. To us, dishonesty is equal to being disrespectful of US! We both agree with the comments regarding the guy who only talks to/compliments my wife when I am away.
We VOTED poor hygiene but could have easily included:
Naked too soon - We disagree that nobody can get naked too soon; it's a total turn-off to both of us if even a beautiful woman is dancing naked 15 minutes after arriving. That should be saved for a little later after everyone has gotten "warmed up." In our humble opinion anyway... let's leave a little something to the imagination.
Large Penis (No personality) - Ugh! How pathetic (and oh what a waste) is it for some guy who's really hung to come up and act like he is god's gift? Total loser to us from the word "go."
Too Pushy - Again, these people dont get very far with either of us. While we both appreciate someone who has confidence in themselves (heck, that's sexy), it's a fine line that some tread between confidence and conceit.
Poorly Dressed - We're not the snappiest dressers in the world, but anyone who is looking to hook up with someone else should at least make a decent attempt at looking like they care about how they look! While this primarily applies to the guys who come in dressed in ratty/dirty jeans and a T-shirt (un-tucked), it can occasionally apply to a woman. Just show up dressed as well as if you were going out with the hopes of picking up a date in a nice club...
Lastly, dishonesty is the biggest turn-off we have encountered in this lifestyle. We'd rather get to know someone as they truly are rather than who/what they wish they were! This ties in with disrespect towards either of both of us. To us, dishonesty is equal to being disrespectful of US! We both agree with the comments regarding the guy who only talks to/compliments my wife when I am away.
#11
- Little Chicken
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- Joined: 06-May 07
- Gender:Female
- Status:Couple
Posted 17 June 2007 - 10:54 PM
any guys who come up while were playing, shoving their private parts in my hand or slapping their precum on my arm, Please back away, such a turn off, I won't play if you just crawl up and start thinking you beling part of my play, especially if you got a big belling and are all sweaty, oh please go away. you need to atleast talk to us 1st.
#12 Guest_deserthawk_*
Posted 23 July 2007 - 01:33 AM
Gina&Dan, on Mar 5 2007, 12:58 PM, said:
...There's no reason or room for [Rude People] in my life anymore....
Hi Gina, I really like that you said that, because so many people 'put up' with rudeness, rather that encourage politeness. My favorite science fiction author, Robert Heinlein, was rabid about rudeness. The main characters in more than one of his books always spoke very strongly about it, basically saying that there is no excuse for rudeness. Anyway, glad to see you not having room in you life for it!
Randy
#13
- Just a Rooster Egg
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- Group: Members
- Posts: 2
- Joined: 02-March 10
- Interests:couple looking for single guy for wife pleasure
- Status:Couple
Posted 02 March 2010 - 07:08 PM
deserthawk, on Jul 23 2007, 01:33 AM, said:
Hi Gina, I really like that you said that, because so many people 'put up' with rudeness, rather that encourage politeness. My favorite science fiction author, Robert Heinlein, was rabid about rudeness. The main characters in more than one of his books always spoke very strongly about it, basically saying that there is no excuse for rudeness. Anyway, glad to see you not having room in you life for it!
Randy
Randy
i agree were new to this life style would be turned off if the preson wasnt respectful i love watching my getting pleasured
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